tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post4220098631666542010..comments2023-06-09T04:25:55.245-07:00Comments on The Hebbs: Ollie Daddy won't last without you.The Hebbshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17906330838650590140noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-40833506587565582662013-02-07T07:50:50.452-08:002013-02-07T07:50:50.452-08:00My deepest condolences. I was guided to this site ...My deepest condolences. I was guided to this site by my son Noah. He was murdered in September. Please believe me when I say I can feel your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you ever want to talk you can find me on Facebook.<br />Love and light<br />Tanya BrancalionAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01715050146179543114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-76352086179852261212013-02-07T07:48:35.778-08:002013-02-07T07:48:35.778-08:00My deepest condolences. I was guided to this post ...My deepest condolences. I was guided to this post by my son Noah. He was murdered back in September and believe me when I say I feel your pain. My heart thoughts and prayers re with you. If you want to talk you can send me a message on Facebook.<br />Love and light<br />Tanya brancalionAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01715050146179543114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-54540991120908821222013-01-30T08:19:20.711-08:002013-01-30T08:19:20.711-08:00Thank you to everyone who posted above. You commen...Thank you to everyone who posted above. You comments are beautiful & I love you!Sheri Barker (aka Granny B)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01755497138836975523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-38174171524086396942013-01-30T08:18:27.959-08:002013-01-30T08:18:27.959-08:00Chris (&Tiffany), Hold on to Hope. That's ...Chris (&Tiffany), Hold on to Hope. That's what keeps us alive through this extremely difficult trial. You are strong Christopher. You can do this. You can do hard things. I'm so glad you wrote this down. I think it helps to get it out of your head, even if it helps just a little. You & TIffany are amazing parents. The funny thing about love is that you never run out. You can continue to pour your love into Poppy & Tiffany even though you poured so much into Ollie. I pray for your hearts to be healed every single day. There will always be scars & always, always Ollie has a huge part of your heart. Just like the Grinch, hearts can grow. They just get bigger to love even more. I Love you & will do anything I can for you. Just remember that we are sending many, many prayers to all 4 of you. <br />Sheri & ScottSheri Barker (aka Granny B)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01755497138836975523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-78776040895403819962013-01-28T14:05:05.739-08:002013-01-28T14:05:05.739-08:00Chris and Tiffany,
I don't know what to say ...Chris and Tiffany,<br /> I don't know what to say that can do more than what has already been said. Except, maybe to tell you that I love you and I marvel at your strength every day. Mindy's quote about the cracks in our soul being filled with gold is exactly what I would wish to say to you, too- how beautiful an idea. The darkness in your life will let the stars shine even brighter when you are able to see them again. We still pray for you at our house and we think about you often. I hope (KnOW) that one day you will return to yourselves to be the people that little Ollie was given to for his short journey here. <br /> If only the love of people around you could be made into a rope to hold you together and a blanket to hold you close- you two would be COVERED! Love, love, love.<br /><br />JulieJulie Barker Pullmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05328893430606208253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-61150989123520291032013-01-28T11:29:40.191-08:002013-01-28T11:29:40.191-08:00Dear Chris, As I read your raw and real emotions I...Dear Chris, As I read your raw and real emotions I wondered if it were possible to literally lend you a portion of my Hope for a while. I know that your heart is broken and your body and soul are weak, I believe that the feelings a heart and soul feel can take over the way our physical bodies function like you described. I also KNOW that the Lord has power to heal. Your heart and soul cannot feel the love and warmth and light He has to offer, but if you could even borrow a little bit of hope from someone else....it will grow inside you and He can carry you though this time until you have strength again to feel the good things of this world. You and Tiffany are such special and beautiful souls. You have so much love to give and light to feel. Hold on to whatever you can. I Pray that you will feel and live and laugh again. Hugs!Rachel Smith*noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-20188710929538066012013-01-27T14:11:38.431-08:002013-01-27T14:11:38.431-08:00Mindy,
I believe and hope everything you said happ...Mindy,<br />I believe and hope everything you said happens to our souls and hearts. One day we may be made<br />Stronger than we ever imagined. I love he quite by Barbara bloom. Thanks for sharing. <br />XoThe Hebbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17906330838650590140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-26150623920262197962013-01-27T14:09:34.300-08:002013-01-27T14:09:34.300-08:00Thank you for your prayers JennThank you for your prayers JennThe Hebbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17906330838650590140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-15449040259104728492013-01-26T21:51:43.739-08:002013-01-26T21:51:43.739-08:00I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart is hea...I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart is heavy thinking about the pain you've had to endure since your precious son's death. I'll be praying that you and your family would experience the peace the comes from The Father of Lights, who knows what it's like to lose His only Son. <br /><br />“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05598055382276022090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-86480302833445096152013-01-26T16:39:30.880-08:002013-01-26T16:39:30.880-08:00tiff and chris,
i have been reading your blog sin...tiff and chris,<br /><br />i have been reading your blog since the beginning. my heart hurts for you so much i wish i could grab you through the computer screen and give you the biggest hug. it is so hard to try to understand why this awful thing had to happen, it doesn't seem fair and i have a hard time trying to understand it, but when i look at the bigger picture i know that you will see and be with your sweet ollie again, the hard part is the day to day grind and i can't say that i know what you are going through because i myself have never lost a child, but if you have touched me, like you have touched so many others through your courage, think of how much your ollie is so very proud of you, he is with you, watching and taking care of you until you meet again<br /><br />we love you guys so much<br />jayda and petejadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12195748633741030650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-79393182422899447792013-01-26T16:32:36.844-08:002013-01-26T16:32:36.844-08:00tiffany and chris,
i have been reading your blog f...tiffany and chris,<br />i have been reading your blog from the beginning, my heart is so sad for you both, i wish so much that i could reach through the computer screen and just hug you both so tight.<br />i wish i knew why these awful things have to happen, it's so hard for me to understand, but when i do look at the bigger picture i know your sweet little family will all be together once again, i know your baby boy is with you every day, i believe in life after death and i know families can always be together, the hard part for you guys is trying to get through this day to day grind, and i can't say that i know exactly what your going through because i myself have never lost a child- i do feel strongly that if you can touch so many people, just like you have touched me through your courage, little ollie is so proud of his mommy, daddy, and baby sister. so many people love you guys and want to help. i will never forget sweet ollie and i never even had the chance to meet him, i hope and pray that the days will eventually start to get a little easier for you, and your new life will soon begin to have hope again- just know that your little boy is always with you, watching you, and taking care of you, until you all meet again.<br />i love you guys <br />jayda and petejadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12195748633741030650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-4817565914145645672013-01-26T12:38:12.438-08:002013-01-26T12:38:12.438-08:00I wish you had a job in the sunshine and fresh air...I wish you had a job in the sunshine and fresh air. I wish Ollie was still with you. Everything about losing a child seems so cold and cruel, but I know that Ollie still feels your love, because love is stronger than separation. You might have to endure this life without him but you are always his dad.<br /><br />There is a quote I love that says, "When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something's suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful." ~Barbara Bloom. I don't know if this is true or not, but it expresses what I hope happens to our souls when we overcome adversity. Although it might seem impossible, one day you will be strong enough to feel joy again, maybe not in the same way as before, but it will be more beautiful because it was so hard won. When you are next with Ollie you will show him how all the cracks in your soul are filled with gold.<br /><br /><br />Love,<br /><br />Mindy<br /> Mindy Williamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06204659186834238717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066195049302114364.post-74609290843098467902013-01-25T23:20:23.038-08:002013-01-25T23:20:23.038-08:00What open and honest feelings, and so heart-wrench...What open and honest feelings, and so heart-wrenching. We lift you up in prayer, so that you can get through these moments in your Earthly life with love and support. Ollie is looking after you...with Poppy as his accomplice. We pray for your family's healing during the times of hurt. Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08978294949305172583noreply@blogger.com